Hurting you isn’t something narcissists do by accident – How METABANK abuses customers:

Hurting you isn’t something narcissists do by accident

Kathy Krajco
What Makes Narcissists Tick
Mon, 02 Jul 2007 07:05 CDT

In all the jabber about narcissism, the worst noise is this idea that hurting you is something narcissists do by accident.If you get nothing else out of “What Makes Narcissists Tick,” get the message that frees you of that ridiculous belief. Which is nothing but a baseless assumption.

I don’t ask you to take my word for this. Test what I say when I say that narcissists hurt you on purpose. Anyone can test any narcissist.

©Walker Art Gallery, Liverpool

Echo and Narcissus, by John William Waterhouse

Here’s how. The next time the narcissist is hurting your feelings or making you feel low, let your feelings show and tell him or her how they are making you feel asking them to stop it.

Be prepared for a shock. Any normal human being would soften and let up, but a narcissist will do exactly the opposite. 

What does that mean?

Is revving up their engines, kicking in the afterburners, and running you right over an “accident” after you show your soft underbelly and beg them to let up on you? 

It’s no “accident,” that’s for sure. 

Want to see a narcissistic rage? That’s no “accident” either.

The test: Just fall to your knees in tears begging them to have a heart and stop kicking you around like dirt. [This would describe customers of METABANK who have ever tried to speak to a METABANK phone representative and been so boldly lied to and had the blame pushed back on to them although METABANK set up their PREPAID CARD for their own monetary gain… You, as the customer are just a tool to be used.]The narcissist’s response? He or she blows up into a rage. Is that rage an “accident” when nothing but how deeply they are hurting you provokes it?

No, it’s a willful and wanton outrage.

Now hear this: THEY DON’T DO IT BY ACCIDENT. They aren’t just inconsiderate and touchy.

Test their “touchiness” (if you can do so safely, or have somebody not at the N’s mercy test it – someone who can defend themselves).

Rage right back in their face. Act just as wild right back in their face. Threaten right back. Speak abusively right back. [And to a corporate entity such as METABANK that acts this way, how would we do this???]Now any normal person would be provoked to rage by your doing this in their face. But narcissists are so UNtouchy that they do the opposite. Watch how instantaneously the raging narcissist becomes meek and mild and switches to his “I-wouldn’t-hurt-a-fly-mask.”

[ Oh, this has to define METABANK’s internal operating system… it is a whole system. Someone  though has to be the creator of this dynamic within METABANK… However, this is how METABANK treats their customers… There is nothing nice about METABANK. Their publicity is all lies too. They keep scamming people…. At one point the page where customers were writing their complaints had multiple advertisements for METABANK on the same page… I just couldn’t believe that they would set up a website to accept complaints and then post their ad right next to the complaint about them…. Now I am thinking that they actually intended to do this…. METABANK is REALLY DIFFERENT from anything you have ever seen in action in a bank before.]Don’t take my word for it. Test it. You CANNOT insult a narcissist who isn’t in a position to bully you! It’s impossible. Try it, you’ll see. Your lack of vulnerability gives them skin a foot thick! (Not to mention a rubber spine.)

“Touchy” my you-know-what.

They aren’t touchy at all. So perceived slights aren’t what set them off. The VULNERABILITY of a TARGET OF OPPORTUNITY is what sets them off – IF there are no witnesses.  [ Oh my, this is METABANK!!!!]

That’s predation, not touchiness. [ METABANK is predatory . All the complaints indicate that they are. They keep customers at a distance so there is no face to face contact…. I think the real narcissistic driver has to be one of the CEO’s… Could all of them be narcissistic? How can they stand each other? Their norm is not normal; METABANK operates using very, very sick dynamics… Bewarned!!!]

Narcissists aren’t inconsiderate of your feelings. To the contrary, they are extremely considerate of your feelings. Your feelings are exactly what they are trying to affect. They closely observe how you react every time they do something to hurt you. [ This may be in part why their publicity can seem to be attentive to customer’s needs while the real product is hurtful and abusive.]

And they are like sharks, able to smell a drop of blood a mile away. Why? Because your hurt feelings are their pain killing drug. [ What is the full aspect of the scam that they use to get partner companies to use them to push the METABANK PREPAID CARD for them then. They must smell the vulnerability that the partner company’s CEOs may feel in a very tight and changing market… METABANK seeks out the vulnerability both of the partner company and then puts the big scam on the achilles tendon of their customer base. The customer base will fall away with the treatment they receive from METABANK. Protect yourselves from METABANK’s Narcissistic Practices!!!]

They are addicted to it. Ever since childhood.

That’s what their mental illness is, an addiction. (In fact, all addictions are classed as mental illness.)

So where do people get the stupid idea that narcissists aren’t to blame for what they do?

It’s asinine to think that narcissists can’t control themselves when we see them controlling themselves perfectly whenever witnesses are present. [ They lie so much. How ever do they get anyone to work there? It has to be an absolute hell hole for employees, and Pickhinkle took all of the blame and is in jail on behalf of the METABANK Narcissistic Perpetrators.]

So, what? being behind closed doors makes them suddenly out of control of themselves? Baloney. [ Baloney is right. I have felt for a long time that what METABANK does is by design rather than by mistake. And if I see it, then it has to be far bigger than many can imagine]Their problem isn’t lack of self control; it’s lack of conscience. Conscience is what makes people behave the same in the dark as in the light of day. [ How could they have their phone representatives lie and push blame off onto consumers day after day? It is clear that they have been specifically instructed to lie and to push blame back onto the customers, and they do it… are they all narcissistic?]

Okay, they have an addiction to trampling people. They are hooked on the childish high they get from throwing somebody down, stepping on the victim’s back, and thumping their chest with a Tarzan yell.

But since when does an addiction amount to a carte blanche? An addiction is just a TEMPTATION. It doesn’t remove the addict’s responsibility to resist that temptation. [ The aspect of being responsible is one that I would like to emphasize… There is never any excuse for lying and pushing blame off onto someone else for what you have done!!! METABANK, stop this now!!!!

If a heroin addict sees you with heroin, he will attack and may kill you for it – IF there are no witnesses present.

But do we absolve him of his responsibility for the crime just because he’s addicted to heroin? Of course not.

Same with the narcissist. Since childhood he has done this mind-altering drug of abusing people and is addicted to it. He addicted himself.

Yet addicted as he is, he demonstrates the ability to control himself by behaving whenever witnesses are present, misbehaving only when he thinks he can get away with it.

Innocence that is not.

He does what he does because nothing but getting his drug matters to him. So he has no conscience. He lives to get it, whenever he can get away with it.

So, hurting others isn’t something narcissists do by accident. It’s how they live.

The victims of narcissists must understand this. They must quit falling for the masks predation conceals itself behind.

[I only bought into the METABANK PREPAID CARD because it was promoted by a company where I had done business for many years… All my confidence has been eroded by how I was treated by METABANK so I no longer do business with the partner company or with METABANK…. METABANK knows to keep changing their name so if I am using a METABANK product now, I am not yet aware of it…. I cannot endorse anything that comes out of METABANK. They single customers out and do their dirty lying and blaming in a one to one phone call…. right there isn’t a crowd to even hear the scam so the customer must relate it to others… I suppose that the narcissistic perpetrator within the rank and file of METABANK know to act politely in public. Trust us, there is nothing honorable about METABANK in the way they treat their customers. Customers are used and abused.]I don’t care how much the poor, little, ole narcissist whines that he didn’t mean to, and claims that he has an excuse because HIS feelings were somehow hurt, and weeps about what a miserable childhood he had and how sad and forlorn he’ll be if you go away, and all that crap. It’s a joke.  [ I do think that the only way that METABANK can keep this up is that they truly enjoy the scam. The poor underbanked who are the most heavily targeted by METABANK; may God help them!!!]

Painful as this is to admit, the victims of narcissists MUST understand it. It’s the bottom line. It predicates your choices.

Don’t take my word for it: test and see. 2 + 2 = 4. Always. Even on Thursdays.

So even if METABANK representatives tell us that 2+2 doesn’t equal 4 or the equivalent, they are still all wrong and evil doers…. Run away from METABANK as fast as you can…. there is nothing nice about the way they do business.