The Art and Skill of Remaining Debt-Free
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Beware of Images.
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Take Control of Your Own Lives and Your Own Finances.
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Stay Out of Debt.
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You don’t need more stuff.
Posted by mrnd5 on November 1, 2013
https://mrnd5.wordpress.com/2013/11/01/truth-in-advertising/
If they are ignorant of what they are doing, what will it take for them to realize that they are the ones who are making METABANK’s CEOS super rich while they still live below the poverty level?
Could they understand that by lying to the customers that this is dishonest? For how long can these customer representatives going on perpetuating this lie that makes their CEOs so rich? Certainly there must be something in it for these people to lie to other people who are so much like them at the other end of the phone? What kind of “UNTRUTHS” have these METABANK phone representatives been fed so that they carry out the dirtiest job on behalf of the METABANK CEOs?
Work means so much to us Americans that without it some people don’t want to get out of bed in the morning.
That is likely one reason unemployed adults and those not working as much as they would like are twice as likely to be depressed as Americans employed full time. [Feeling stuck in a dead-end job such as being a phone representative for METABANK…. This has got to be a pathetic and hopeless situation for those who are being required to do the dirty work that makes the METABANK CEOs rich and then richer yet.]
STORY: Who’s feeling stressed? Young adults
COLUMN: Workers’ happiness rubs off on profits [ Think about this!!!!!!]
That’s the conclusion of a Jan. 1-July 25 survey of more than 100,000 Americans conducted by the Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index. It says 16.6% of unemployed Americans are depressed compared to 5.6% of those who work full time.
“Self-esteem and self-worth are closely aligned with working,” says psychotherapist Charles Allen, who estimates about 10% of his clients are out of work or worried about losing their job.
When you have a job, you have a continuous source of feedback that you are a contributing member of society, he says. That’s not to say you go to work thinking, “Hey, I’m a valued member of society.” The idea is largely subconscious.
[But what if you are asked to harm innocent people who are just like you whom you only encounter at the other end of the phone??? That can’t feel hopeful in anyway.]
“You feel it in the depths of your brain,” he says.
Being employed helps you feel wanted and that you’re contributing to your finances, says psychotherapist Elizabeth Lombardo. It also gives you social support — “a buffer against depression.”
In his practice, psychotherapist Jonathan Alpert sees a lot of unemployed people who are depressed.
He describes them as usually feeling hopeless and helpless, their sense of identity greatly diminished.
“Employment provides a sense of purpose, … of belongingness,” he says. “Those who are unemployed lack that purpose.”
Some unemployed workers also lack structure, which leads to unhealthy habits like staying up until 3 a.m. then getting up late the next day. That “makes them feel even more different than the employed,” Alpert says.
Being depressed also can affect your ability to seek and keep a job.
Allen’s depressed clients who are unemployed “typically have tremendous difficulty in finding work because they lack energy and drive to engage in a job hunt,” he says. Their pessimism and feelings of worthlessness also contribute to the idea that they won’t find work.
When motivation plummets, you withdraw and “why bother?” prevails, Lombardo says.
A depressed person may not do well in interviews.
“Who wants to hire ‘Debbie Downer?’ ” she asks.
Some people who are depressed can have a tough time keeping a job: They take too much time off, have a lack of drive, don’t concentrate well and sometimes simply don’t care, Alpert says.
[ The term “SIMPLY DON’T CARE” highlights that some people may take a job as a phone representative at METABANK just to have a job. They may understand that what they are doing is immoral, but perceive that there aren’t many other options. This has got to be a sad state of affairs for these employees. If they could see a positive way forward, internally they may be able to ask for the right to treat others fairly…. This situation is predatory on so many levels…. Shame on METABANK CEOs who created this abhorent and offensive scenario.]
They also “often have a poor self-image and lack confidence, two factors that strongly impact job retention and performance,” he says.
It “usually stems from high stress and feeling disenchanted with their job or simply unhappy with the direction their career has taken them,” he says.
Depression among those with jobs costs U.S. employers $23 billion annually in lost productivity, according to Gallup.
The survey found that depression decreases as income rises. It showed that Americans who earn less than $36,000 annually are nearly three times more likely to be depressed than those who earn more than $90,000 annually.
[We find it impossible to believe that the METABANK Phone representatives who lie to customers can do this in the long term without having some feelings of remorse. We have, of course, made the assumption that they are human beings. How desperate are they that they can continue to lie to people who are a lot like them at the other end of the phone?]
It may be depressing to talk about depression. But the more we know about it and discuss it, the more likely the stigma associated with it will be reduced. [We believe that America is a sick society at this time. It is imperative that as ordinary people that we insist on humane treatment of each other… this treatment goes both ways, you know… It is the “Golden Rule.”]
And perhaps the people who need help the most will get it.
Career consultant Andrea Kay is the author of This Is How To Get Your Next Job: An Inside Look at What Employers Really Want.
Note: Please notice carefully where METABANK and any other Prepaid Bank Card offered places their advertisements
Posted by mrnd5 on October 27, 2013
https://mrnd5.wordpress.com/2013/10/27/when-your-boss-asks-you-to-do-work-that-you-perceive-to-be-immoral/
Do you think that METABANK offers our elected senators and representatives the same prepaid bank card that is being offered to the general public????
If they were, then this problem would have been resolved long ago. It appears that METABANK through lobbyists like RUPLI are also wining and dining our elected senators and representatives so that these PREPAID BANK CARDS are being offered everywhere at this time. These prepaid cards are awful for the ordinary consumer. Some companies who partner with banks like METABANK may make a lot of fast money, but this practice of using PREPAID CARDS is not sustainable.
“A fellow traveler told us that when he was in Europe that no one would accept his METABANK issued “Travel Card” with a VISA logo on it.”
Just before his trip to Europe, he had been urged by one of METABANK’s corporate partner’s clerks to try out the METABANK “Travel Card”. That clerk also encouraged him as a travel promoter for his university to get others to buy the METABANK Travel.
The traveler mentioned above tried to phone METABANK from Europe using the number at the back of his card. He was unable to get any response while in Europe. Upon his return to the U.S.A., META BANK phone representatives told him that “He had used the card wrong.”
Of course, this is a lie. No company would accept the METABANK TRAVEL CARD in Europe.
Also a “RED FLAG” should go up when a company tries to push blame for problems that customers find in using their service back off onto the customer. METABANK by design holds onto their customers money and takes full control of their money. How much money that can be spent in any given day is limited so that METABANK, and any bank that operates like it, can get an interest free loan from that customer. This is a violation of a good faith relationship. Customers are being abused by METABANK.
If we hadn’t been so shamefully and unabashedly by METABANK, we wouldn’t be writing this blog to warn other consumers, but we were so grossly taken advantage of and lied to by METABANK that we must speak up against the practices used by METABANK.
Had only someone else warned us ahead of time, we may have been spared….
Debit Card Policies
This location does accept bank debit cards with the MasterCard or Visa logo at the time of rental if you have arrived by air into the metro area. The renter must present a return airline ticket with a return date at the time of rental. The renter must be at least 25 years of age. You will be subject to a credit check to determine and ensure credit worthiness before releasing the car to you.
(Car Rental Company Name) reserves the right, in its sole discretion, to seek a Debit Card authorization hold in excess of the estimated rental charges. We will place a hold on your account of $200 plus the estimated rental charges. THESE FUNDS WILL NOT BE AVAILABLE FOR YOUR USE. When the rental is over we will process the reversal but the bank may take time to post it back to the account.
If you fail to return the vehicle as agreed, (Car Rental Company Name) will obtain additional authorizations from your account to cover the rental charges.
(Car Rental Company Name) is not responsible for any returned checks or over-drafts based on this policy.
Positive identification in addition to your driver’s license may be required.
In the United States, Debit, Cash or Check cards can be used at the end for payment of rental charges. For acceptable credit identification and payment methods in countries outside of the United States, please consult the Renter’s Guide and search for the specific location.
Note: Prepaid Debit/Gift cards are not acceptable methods of credit identification to pick up a car at any location. One of the above mentioned cards must be presented. Prepaid Debit/Gift cards are accepted at time of return only.
The truth of the arrangement is quite the opposite: PREPAID CARD/DEBIT CARD USERS will find their money is now out of their control. These customers will not have access to their own cash money; METABANK will not accept any kind of deposit on their prepaid cards except for cash money. Once METABANK has a customer’s cash money, the customer has given over control of their own money to an anonymous and unscrupulous entity. METABANK’s publicity is a form of false advertising. The PREPAID Bank Cards are a great money making deal for METABANK, and any other bank that follows their example and practices. For consumers, the prepaid bank cards, the debit cards, the gift cards are a nightmare. You are being cautioned not to enter into any kind of an agreement with METABANK because they have lied to so many other customers, including us, and they have kept us from having access to our own money when we needed it the most. Customer after customer have complained about the same identical problem when using DEBIT CARDS, PREPAID CARDS, TRAVEL PREPAID CARDS managed by METABANK.
Because METABANK uses other corporate entities to market their PREPAID CARDS, and because METABANK operates using so many different names, you may already be using a METABANK product without knowing it. Some customers have indicated that the PREPAID Card by METABANK worked as expected for a period of time and then they got scammed big time by METABANK and lied to by METABANK.
METABANK is first and foremost a collections agency and not a bank, especially not a bank in the sense that most people understand the term “BANK.”
METABANK got its start by catering to the underbanked and unbanked citizens in our community…. When you think about this, this means those people all around us who must live from pay check to paycheck. They are the working poor who are most targeted by METABANK. METABANK encourages them to have their salary check directly deposited into an affiliated account with their debit card. This gives METABANK far too much control over their customers’ assets and economic livelihood. If METABANK lied to others, as their customer, you will not be spared. Eventually, it will become your turn to be scammed too.
Customers are only an economic tool for METABANK. METABANK is not designed to provide a genuine customer service to their customer base. METABANK will only move onto to the net person, tell them what they want to hear as a way to hook them into using METABANK. METABANK is taking advantage of the rapid population growth that the world is experiencing.
METABANK is training other banks to follow their practices in annual seminars. Just because METABANK scams the general public and they can get others to do the same thing, this will never make METABANK’s practices moral, scrupulous or of any kind of genuine service to humanity.
METABANK will always push the blame for any problems that customers may encounter using their prepaid card back off onto the customer. METABANK Phone Representatives have been given a script, a list of lies to spew back to customers. Partner corporations who have been enticed to use the METABANK Prepaid Cards are give cards with different contact phone numbers on them and they are treated politely. These partner companies are often in disbelief when their customer complain about how they have been so grossly abused by METABANK.
Posted by mrnd5 on April 2, 2013
https://mrnd5.wordpress.com/2013/04/02/prepaid-bank-card-are-not-acceptable-forms-of-payment-in-the-usa-at-many-places/
Had METABANK not taken advantage of us, made us very vulnerable, and lied to us and to the Better Business Bureau of Des Moines, this blog would never have been created.
But the fact remains that METABANK lied to us, the partner company that sold us their product and to the BBB of Des Moines, IA. METABANK took our money, our cash money because that is the only way that a card can be loaded/re-loaded, and then kept us from having access to our own money when we needed it the most. This action made us even more vulnerable than if we had been paying directly using cash. The prepaid card only is a money making gimmick that serves to make the METABANK CEOs outrageously rich… This is not a sustainable pattern for the US Economy.
#1 Pay Power is a METABANK product.
#2 The gimmick of attaching a direct deposit that will give you the added bonus of a $20 credit isn’t enough of an incentive given the fact that you will actually be giving complete and full control of all of your assets over to METABANK, an unknown and anonymous entity that you found online.
#3 The concept of a direct deposit is okay, but it has been so abused by METABANK that in their hands it becomes like a weapon against METABANK’s own customer base.
#4 Many customers, that is former customers of METABANK, have complained for years now that METABANK keeps them from being able to access their own money when they need it the most. METABANK’s customer representatives have lied to customers repeatedly for the reasons that the customers aren’t able to access their own money. The control that METABANK wields over their customers’ accounts has gone far beyond what can be considered normal and appropriate. METABANK’s customers are a huge cash cow for METABANK and create a “living hell” for customers who must give METABANK cash money.
#5 METABANK promises to provide safety and security, but this isn’t for their customers. METABANK is working to get safety and security for themselves. Once METABANK has control of all of your assets, your cash money, then you will discover that you can’t access your own cash money. You have been taken in by false promises.
# 6 METABANK is really a collections agency and not a bank in the sense that we have always thought of banks. METABANK relies on the consumers’ previously held impression of banks as being the safest place to keep their money. METABANK is a Member of FDIC and that statement may lull customers into thinking that METABANK will be in a fiduciary position to protect their customers’ assets…. METABANK is not and has never been able to deliver a quality product for protecting their customer base.
#7 METABANK relies on partner companies and internet ads to get new customers so they can keep doing the same old scam to a new batch of consumers. METABANK relies on getting a new batch of customers of whom they will then begin to take advantage for their own personal gain and at the expense and misery of the METABANK customer.
#8 Marketing strategies of METABANK involve the creation of new names for the same scam on consumers. This is one way that METABANK endeavors to get around the law… METABANK “is always one step ahead of the law.”
#9 METABANK creates all the rules governing their services or as it turns out for consumers ” a lack of real service accompanied by abuses.”
#10 METABANK helped to create the “Non-Profit” NPBCA to advocate for PREPAID CARDS in DC by using Rupli and Associates. It is a way for METABANK to make themselves appear to be legitimate…. What METABANK does with the prepaid cards is to abuse consumers. The cards are designed so that METABANK has control of your cash money. Customer Fees are attached to opening up the cards while METABANK is getting an interest Free Loan from those who can least afford to give out loans.
#11 METABANK is a “thrift bank”… This term is used to indicate the lowest level of customer service and the highest level of fees for the consumer.
#12 METABANK indicates that “No Credit Check” is required, but consumers have indicated that META BANK does a credit check anyway, but without your knowledge. METABANK is consciously looking for the more vulnerable people to give them loans at a very high interest rate.
#13 By creating a direct deposit from your salary/payroll check or government check that is affiliated with a METABANK debit card, you are becoming an economic slave for METABANK. As a consumer, you must understand that you are establishing a state of economic servitude for yourself by entering into a contract with METABANK.
#14 METABANK/NBPCA is like a Cancer: they are offering training sessions around the USA. Just look at their schedule of up-coming events. You may believe that you are not going to be affected by METABANK, but it may be that you already are one of their customers. The training sessions serve the purpose of normalizing the type of actions and the way that METABANK has scammed their customer base for a period of years now.
#15 METABANK created an organization that purportedly examines customer service and that organization gave METABANK a best customer service award…. While customers continue to complain about how they were abused and taken advantage of by METABANK.
#16 METABANK never accepts responsibility for the problems they have created for others, their own customer base. By design this cannot be a sustainable way to do business, but in the meantime, as consumers, we don’t want to become METABANK’s next victim as their system comes to a head and fails. METABANK is using a get rich quick scheme. It is not a long term solution for any bank or their customer base.
#17 METABANK has as its parent company META PAYMENT SOLUTIONS and META FINANCIAL GROUP INC… METABANK really isn’t at its core a bank in the conventional sense that will protect their customer base’s assets in a mutually beneficial arrangement. Empty promises are used to lure in customers; METABANBK has no intention of providing those services. Years of consumer complaints have proven this to be true. METABANK advertises for employees who are willing to work in a fast paced, ever changing scenario and who can deal with angry customers. METABANK expects “angry customers” because at the heart of what they are doing, even METABANK knows what they do is a fraud and an abuse of their own customers for their own get rich quick scheme.
All that we can do is to try to warn others about this problem:
METABANK relies on the internet and partner companies to push their prepaid card.
METABANK makes promises and implies services they have no intention of ever giving their customer base.
METABANK relies on keeping their customer base at a distance. Customers have been charged for phoning METABANK. Many customers say that they get the run around from METABANK when they phone. It appears to consumers that the METABANK phone representatives have been given a list of reasons for why consumers can’t access their own money. The underlying message is always that IT IS THE CUSTOMERS’ FAULT FOR WHY THE METABANK PREPAID CARD DOESN’T WORK
METABANK has never shown any kind of real and genuine response to their customers’ complaints. The customers complain about the identical mistreatment and METABANK has never ever actually addressed their customers’ input nor their real needs. METABANK’s publicity says one thing, but the actual customer service will be totally different and horrible.
Please be advised to ” DO NOT BUSINESS WITH METABANK” or with any other bank or partner trained by METABANK
The old saying that your parents used to tell you that “just because everybody else is doing something, it doesn’t make it right”…. METABANK and the NBPCA may provide training events to promote and to normalize what they are doing, but what METABANK does and how METABANK operates is immoral and an abuse against society and humanity in general for their own personal gain… Consumers are being warned to no do business with METABANK or any entity that has been influenced by METABANK.
Posted by mrnd5 on February 21, 2013
https://mrnd5.wordpress.com/2013/02/21/pay-power-is-metabank-and-metabanks-practices-fail-consumers-repeatedly/
Every Tuesday is Finance & Family Day at Zen Habits.
I’m always looking for ways to simplify my finances (I’m weird like that, I know), and recently I’ve been scrutinizing my already-simple budget to make it even simpler.
The goal is to
I can’t claim these ideas are original, or that I haven’t discussed them in various places before, but in my experience, they work. They’re simple and powerful.
If you haven’t done it yet, it’s probably because budgets seem intimidating to you, or they are too much hassle to set up and maintain.
Those are both valid points — which is why you should follow this simplified plan if these things apply to you. Now, there’s plenty of fancy software out there for setting up budgets, but I don’t think they’re necessary. A simple spreadsheet will do — and if you can create a SUM formula to add up the total of a column of numbers, you have all the spreadsheet knowledge necessary.
1. Create a simple spreadsheet for your budget, if you haven’t already, and start by listing your income and your monthly expenses. Estimate, in round numbers, how much you spend on each expense every month. You can adjust later, but it’s better to err on the side of too high a number, rather than putting a low number and breaking your budget.
2. 60 Percent Solution. There are many ways to structure your budget, but the simplest I’ve found is the 60% solution. Basically, this budget asks you to fit your regular monthly expenses within 60% of your gross income, so that you have room for savings (long-term and short-term), retirement and spending money (“fun money”). These are the things that most often break a budget, because most people don’t budget for them.
Now, your percentage will vary, but the percentages given here are just rough guidelines:Fewer categories.
A lot of budget software asks you to fill in a million categories and subcategories. Those can be useful if you want to track all that stuff, but I don’t. I recommend simplifying: just use broad categories like food and gas and spending and utilities. Use what works.
3. Pay bills online. As much as possible, pay your bills online. These would be most of the bills in the first category above — utilities, rent or mortgage, cell phone, Internet, etc. If you can’t pay electronically, have your bank send out a check to the vendor. Make these payments automatic, so you don’t need to worry about them.
I don’t like credit cards. Call me old fashioned.
Use a debit card if you need to.
10. Pay all bills at the same time. It often just takes a simple call to get a vendor or creditor to change the due date on your bills. If you can get all your bills to be due on, let’s say, the 10th of the month, you can do all your bill paying at once. For some people, this will mean they will need to do a bit of scrimping to get ahead enough so that they can afford to make all their month’s payments at the beginning of the month, but it’s worth it. You can pay all your bills and be done with it.
[Because the product that METABANK, a PREPAID CARD, didn’t work at all from a consumer’s perspective for us and many others who complain regularly about how they have been kept from being able to access their own money once they gave METABANK cash money to place on a prepaid card, we feel compelled to alert other consumers that the METABANK PREPAID CARD isn’t good for customers/consumers.]
Posted by mrnd5 on February 5, 2013
https://mrnd5.wordpress.com/2013/02/05/making-a-budget-paying-using-only-cash-easier-and-safest-approach-at-this-time/
I established this blog after I had been scammed by META BANK when using their prepaid bank card.
META BANK Lied to me and I had wondered why.
Then I went online and saw that META BANK had been doing this to many other people. It was always the same scam but using different PREPAID BANK CARD names.
The scam is “To keep customer’s money from them” and “To get a free interest loan for META BANK.” That is the part that is consistent and which happens regularly with META BANK.
META BANK has created all of the rules in the fine print on their bank contract. The rules can be changed at any time and with out notice to their customer base.
META BANK began with the underbanked and used that experience to build up their repertoire for what came to be their scam pattern that they would seek to push off onto the general public. The underbanked would be the most economically vulnerable people in our society.
META BANK promises to help them to improve their credit rating by getting one of META BANK’s PREPAID CARDS and by having their payroll salary check or government check directly deposited into an associated checking account. By doing this, META BANK gets full control of all of the assets of the most financially vulnerable people in our society. Then META BANK wreaks havoc on the lives of these people who have been enticed by false and misleading promises.
Oh, it was bad enough that META BANK had scammed me, but the fact that META BANK had done this to so many people really irritated me, and that they had done this to the most vulnerable among us really upset me… so much so that I had to speak-out on their behalf in an effort to protect others from being scammed by META BANK as I had viewed was happening to so many people already.
I don’t want what had happened to me to happen to another person and yet META BANK had actually done much worse to others. I needed consumers to speak up and to act in ways that would serve to protect them and others. We are all in this together in one great fraternity of consumers/customers of a banking system. We must help each other because banks like META BANK have shown us that they cannot or will not serve us as they should . Given the fact that META BANK has hired lobbyists (RUPLI and Associates) to promote the PREPAID BANK CARD, we can see that META BANK has the means to serve the public, but that their interests are only in creating greater and greater wealth for their CEO’s.
Because META BANK doesn’t understand the real purpose and role in what customer service should be, as consumers/customers, we must demand bank reforms that actually protect us from Banking Practices such as those currently practiced by META BANK.
By Paul Babiak, Ph.D., and Mary Ellen O’Toole, Ph.D.
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Psychopathy is one of the most studied personality disorders. It consists of variations of 20 well-documented characteristics that form a unique human personality syndrome—the psychopath.
Many of these traits are visible to those who interact with the psychopath who possess some or all of these characteristics. For some, superficial charm and grandiose sense of self make them likable on first meeting.
Their ability to impress others with entertaining and captivating stories about their lives and accomplishments can result in instant rapport.
They often make favorable, long-lasting first impressions.
This personality disorder is a continuous variable, not a classification or distinct category, which means that not all corporate psychopaths exhibit the same behaviors.
Beneath the cleverly formed façade—typically created by psychopaths to influence their targets—is a darker side, which people eventually may suspect. ( META BANK’s advertisements were designed to address my needs as a customer, but the product really wasn’t designed to meet my needs. Then META BANK Lied to me. Is META BANK only hiring people who don’t mind lying? Certainly, after a while those people who must do the dirty work for META BANK by lying to their customer base will come to realize that they are only salaried employees and that the CEO’s are making a real fortune from this scam. I saw the dark side of the PREPAID BANK CARDS very clearly and in a very negative way… I want to protect others.)
They can be pathological liars who con, manipulate, and deceive others for selfish means.( Wow! That is what META BANK does!!!) Some corporate psychopaths thrive on thrill seeking, bore easily, seek stimulation, and play mind games with a strong desire to win. ( MIND GAMES with a strong desire to win… That is exactly how I was treated by META BANK as their customer and why I feel so compelled to speak out to warn other consumers.)
Unlike professional athletes moved by a desire to improve performance and surpass their personal best, psychopaths are driven by what they perceive as their victims’ vulnerabilities. ( As a former META BANK customer/victim, I have observed that META BANK targets their publicity to customer’s self noted vulnerable areas… Often times, META BANK uses the customer’s desire to protect their financial welfare, promises them that security and then scams that same customer once they have possession and control of that Customer’s cash money. META BANK hasn’t improved their product to meet customer’s real needs; META BANK only changes the wording in their publicity to move the same product using a new name, but it is the same old scam all over again.)
Little research exists on their inner psychological experiences; however, they seem to get perverted pleasure from hurting and abusing their victims. ( I believe that META BANK seeks out customer’s by making false promises and giving those potential customers misleading information to hook them in. META BANK changes their name and then does the same scam over and over again…. Of course, META BANK enjoys this scam and is indifferent to the people they scam. META BANK was indifferent to my needs as a customer and lied to me…. It was when they so boldly lied to me about many things and kept expanding the list of lies that I began to question what was really going on within META BANK…. Then I read about Boesen and Pickhinkle, both of whom I felt got royally scammed by META BANK and then after Boesen committed suicide META BANK went after his estate. Years later META BANK was still trying to drain more assets out of the widow Boesen had left behind… I see META BANK/META FINANCIAL SYSTEMS as a major con of our times.)
Functional magnetic resonance imaging (FMRI) research indicates that psychopaths are incapable of experiencing basic human emotions and feelings of guilt, remorse, or empathy.1 ( This is most likely the case for META BANK because once they have scammed one customer, they simply move on to the next. META BANK doesn’t learn from their mistakes so they can improve their services for their customers. OH NO!!! META BANK is inspired by their own success at lying to only lie more and to continue. The average person would feel remorse and any problems relayed to them by customers would be addressed, but META BANK only keeps doing the same scam over and over again.)
This emotional poverty often is visible in their shallow sentiment. ( Wow that described my experience with META BANK? META PAYMENT SYSTEMS which is after all really nothing but a collections agency. It had become obvious to me that to get the partner corporate entity to buy into promoting their product that META BANK had wined and dined that entity just so they could sweet talk them into scamming all of their customer base. This partnership gave META BANK full access to all of the customers with whom the partner had been building a rapport for many years… I could no longer trust that corporate partner, and I severed all ties with them after many years as their customer… sad really… META BANK indicates that they have all of the collection aspects of the relationship in place as part of the publicity to that corporate partner… I never would have become a customer of META BANK if a trusted local partner hadn’t been the one selling me the PREPAID CARD….. META BANK had also lied to that corporate partner who initially sold me the prepaid card, but the scam was being pushed off onto me… That corporate partner wouldn’t believe that META BA NK could abuse me in such a way because the card had worked so well for them… Well, that was just apart of the bigger scam, and META BANK is a scam operation.)
They display emotions only to manipulate individuals around them. They mimic other people’s emotional responses. Some lack realistic long-term goals, although they can describe grandiose plans. The impulsive and irresponsible psychopath lives a parasitic and predatory lifestyle, seeking out and using other people, perhaps, for money, food, shelter, sex, power, and influence.
Psychopathy is a personality disorder traditionally assessed with the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R).2 Often used interchangeably with psychopathy, the term sociopathy is obsolete and was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) in 1968. Currently, there is no formal diagnosis of psychopathy in the DSM-Fourth Edition-Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR); however, it is being considered for the 2013 DSM-V list of personality disorders.
Façade It is fascinating that psychopaths can survive and thrive in a corporate environment. Day-to-day interactions with coworkers, coupled with business policies and procedures, should make unmasking them easy, but this does not always hold true. Large companies’ command-and-control functions ought to make dealing with them simple and direct; however, this may not be the case. ( META BANK’s customer relations are convoluted. Their publicity is basically a lie. META BANK Makes money for their CEO’s who are incredibly rich!!!) Psychopathic manipulation usually begins by creating a mask, known as psychopathic fiction, in the minds of those targeted. ( Because of the way that METABANK representatives lied to me and tried to push blame on me for their actions , which I believe were intentional that allowed META BANK to hold my $5,000.00 and to keep me from having access to my own money… I believe that there is Pschopathic manipulation present in META BANK.) In interpersonal situations, this façade shows the psychopath as the ideal friend, lover, and partner. ( How else would such a person get by and be kept by META BANK? Also I believe that this person or group of people may actually be rather high ranking at META BANK) These individuals excel at sizing up their prey. ( META BANK is best at studying the needs of the American Consumer and perhaps consumer’s in general and they market the identical product using many new names designed to meet the real needs of their targeted customer, but META BANK really has only one kind of prepaid bank card and META BANK retains the right to change all of the rules whenever they see fit and as often as they see fit without notice to their customers…. What kind of a real relationship is this? … The design relies on publicity targeted and crafted to appear to meet consumer’s real needs, but that is part of the scam.) They appear to fulfill their victims’ psychological needs, much like the grooming behavior of molesters. ( META BANK says in their publicity that by using their PREPAID BANK CARDS that this is safer for customers; it isn’t safe at all for customers given how META BANK takes over and fully controls a customer’s money and keeps the customer from being able to access their own cash money while META BANK has free use of the customer’s money; in this way the PREPAID BANK CARD works like an interest free loan to META BANK while doing nothing at all to protect consumers…. META BANK gets corporate partners to market their card for them, most likely with promises of increased revenue, but that partner corporation will lose their former customer base who will find that META BANK is impossible to deal with. META BANK has obviously courted those corporate partners. Their employees are issued gift cards, and then asked to push the prepaid cards to their customer base. For the employees they can honestly say that the cards work quite well because for them they do. So they can sell the cards with a straight face and with great sincerity. The customers who are issued prepaid cards that may look like those that the employees have are actually issued prepaid cards with a different numbers and the contact phone number on the back will bring each to their designated customer service representative. The customers will find great difficulty using the cards and in dealing with META BANK who has told customers that they haven’t used the card correctly… this has been repeated over and over again per customer’s online complaints to that effect.) Although they sometimes appear too good to be true, this persona typically is too grand to resist. They play into people’s basic desire to meet the right person—someone who values them for themselves, wants to have a close relationship, and is different from others who have disappointed them. ( Wow!!! This is even how META BANK’s PREPAID CARD Publicity reads… Customers are studied and then marketed to based on those customer’s most vulnerable areas what ever they are because META BANK has a card for all of those vulnerable areas. Actually the card is the same; the publicity for the card is modified to appear to meet the needs of the customer. It has always been the same prepaid card that META BANK has offered just with a new name.) Belief in the realism of this personality can lead the individual to form a psychopathic bond with the perpetrator on intellectual, emotional, and physical levels. At this point, the target is hooked and now has become a psychopathic victim. Corporate psychopaths use the ability to hide their true selves in plain sight and display desirable personality traits to the business world. To do this, they maintain multiple masks at length. (I had wondered how this worked, but it would seem that the people who are behind the scam by which META BANK operates may convey a very congenial face to the world or they send a newly hired employee to speak to the public… that new employee doesn’t even know that what they have been given to say is a con and that they have been given only partial information… SEE: LISA BINDER who spoke to the press about the Dubai Assassination Using a META BANK PREPAID CARD. ) The façade they establish with coworkers and management is that of the ideal employee and future leader. This can prove effective, particularly in organizations experiencing turmoil and seeking a “knight in shining armor” to fix the company. ( This knight in shining armor must exude confidence that draws people to them… I feel so sorry for the employees of META BANK… Pickhinkle is in prison for bank fraud/embezzlement or CD fraud, but what were her supervisors doing while she did this scam? I think that she was as much a victim as the enactor of the crime… just my opinion from the outside looking in. She indicated at her trial that she was following directions… I believe her.) ConHow is it possible for psychopaths to fool business-savvy executives and employers? They often use conning skills during interviews to convince their hiring managers that they have the potential for promotion and the knowledge, skills, and abilities to do an outstanding job. ( It may be in the very higher/higher eschelon of META BANK where the con actually began, but the way META BANK’s operates is a scam of their customer base through the use of misleading information, publicity that has little basis in facts and by lying to their customer base, per my own experience.) Using their lying skills, they may create phony resumes and fictitious work experience to further their claims. They may manipulate others to act as references. Credentials, such as diplomas, performance awards, and trophies, often are fabricated.
Once inside the organization, corporate psychopaths capitalize on others’ expectations of a commendable employee.( I believe that META BANK does this through employee reward systems) Coworkers and managers may misread superficial charm as charisma, a desirable leadership trait. A psychopath’s grandiose talk can resemble self-confidence, while subtle conning and manipulation often suggest influence and persuasion skills. Sometimes psychopaths’ thrill-seeking behavior and impulsivity are mistaken for high energy and enthusiasm, action orientation, and the ability to multitask. ( Meta Bank advertises for employees who can work in a fast changing and fast paced work environment…. no mention is made of honesty, integrity or the ability to work well with their customer base…. META BANK’s value system is skewed.) To the organization, these individuals’ irresponsibility may give the appearance of a risk-taking and entrepreneurial spirit—highly prized in today’s fast-paced business environment. Lack of realistic goal setting combined with grandiose statements can be misinterpreted as visionary and strategic thinking ability; both are rare and sought after by senior management. An inability to feel emotions may be disguised as the capability to make tough decisions and stay calm in the heat of battle. DamageEvidence suggests that when participating in teams, corporate psychopaths’ behaviors can wreak havoc. In departments managed by psychopaths, their conduct decreases productivity and morale. These issues can have a severe impact on a company’s business performance. ( I had felt that the reason that METABANK employees lied to me, bold and brazenly lied to me as their customer originated in the higher ranks among their CEO’s. The mind set is a really sick one at META BANK that would permit them to lie to their customer in such a brazen way…. Had they never seen that they were lying? META BANK had mailed me a check at my home address and then said that I ( pleased note that META BANK was pushing the blame off on the consumer/customer base) had never given them my address. META BANK had a canceled check with my correct mailing address on it… Why did META BANK feel the need to lie? I saw through the lie, but once META BANK has your money, you have lost all control and even complete accessibility to your own money.) There also is the risk for economic crimes to be committed. For the corporate executive and the criminal justice professional, the issue is the possibility of fraud. ( It was clear to me that META BANK had designed the prepaid bank card as a way to keep money from consumers. The way that the idea was put in place was to scam their customer base rather than to serve them… META BANK’s mindset is really sick.) Today’s corporate psychopath may be highly educated—several with Ph.D., M.D., and J.D. degrees have been studied—and capable of circumventing financial controls and successfully passing corporate audits.( META BANK’s corporate pyschopath may actually have a law degree and be dedicated exclusively to pushing META BANK’s agenda.) InvestigationInvestigators should familiarize themselves with the typical traits and characteristics of psychopaths. They must understand the manipulation techniques used to create and manage the psychopathic bonds established with victim organizations. ( I can assure you as a former META BANK customer that there is something very wrong with the way that META BANK does business. The red flag for me was META BANK’s desire to push the blame off on me and to boldly lie to me… there is something very sick in the dynamics and internal practices at META BANK.) Their reputations, as judged by those in power with whom they have bonded, known as patrons, often provide added protection from closer investigation. As a result, the investigator may need to build a case with management for the use and broad application of more sophisticated techniques. Psychopaths can be expert liars often immune to traditional deception-revealing techniques. Some practice avoiding detection in anticipation of being caught and interrogated. Therefore, investigators independently should corroborate any information provided by these individuals.3 Psychopaths often compartmentalize their behavior, enabling them to present themselves differently to various people. ( META BANK obviously wined and dined their partner corporations in order to get those partner corporations to push their META BANK PREPAID CARD. As a META BANK PREPAID CARD HOLDER, I was taken advantage of and misused.Because of this, I feel compelled to speak out to try to protect other consumers.) This can help them hide their manipulation and control over victims.(META BANK wanted and wants full control of customer’s money. It is an interest free loan to META BANK. META BANK has offered classes to other banks to show them how to do this same scam. Then if they are all doing it and basically they all need to do it in order to be able to survive, it may appear that the underlying principles of the META BANK CARD are usual and normal, but in reality it is only an expansion of the same scam. This time, since “Everybody is doing it” there is an added sense of legitimacy to the original scam.) Coworkers may have knowledge or suspicions about the psychopath’s actions that can be useful to the investigator. However, they either may fear repercussions or fall under the influence of the psychopathic bond. (I don’t know what the deal is at META BANK internally, but from what I have observed, there is a major problem. META BANK needs for others to imitate their practices when in fact these practices are very harmful to the general public.) If investigators establish rapport and trust with coworkers, information that will make their work easier may be forthcoming. The difficulty comes when these associates are persons of interest. Fortunately, some companies have hotlines for employees to report coworker fraud and other complaints. This information provides an invaluable source of leads. Corporate psychopaths with exceptional verbal skills make crafty interviewees.( I have felt that META BANK is very skilled at creating publicity on line… it is just too good to be true that any entity could actually meet a customer’s real needs. META BANK has customers self identify according to their own perception of their most vulnerable places. Then META BANK sells the same prepaid bank card using a new name but the same old prepaid bank card after hooking the customer.) This ability provides an opportunity embraced by many of them to fool law enforcement officers. In these cases, investigators should proceed with caution.4 Specific interview strategies should focus on exposing psychopaths’ vulnerabilities. Possession of a sense of superiority and lack of empathy can enable them to boast about the brilliance of their latest fraud scheme. They often believe that only someone equal in intelligence to them could understand their actions. Strategies specifically designed to elicit such boasting can result in a wealth of information for the investigator. Corporate psychopaths are successful because they single out and isolate their targets.(META BANK’s customers are often sought out online and never come face to face with META BANK employees. Frequently META BANK customers must pay extra to phone META BANK . I was handed from one person to the next after having been put on hold. The scale of META BANK’s scam, by using many different names, is great and therefore a serious problem.) They sometimes manipulate several victims at the same time. Investigators never should assume they are immune to a psychopath’s approach. One conversation may be enough for the bond to be established. Investigators must know themselves so that psychopaths’ attempts at bonding fail. It is valuable for investigators to allow psychopaths to believe they have established rapport with someone inside law enforcement.
Investigators must work as a team, communicate openly, and take all observations seriously. This is necessary for personal self-defense, proficient investigative work, and successful prosecution. Officers must take heed to avoid being impressed with a suspect’s credentials and success. ( I think that META BANK has given large amounts of cash to re-election campaigns in Iowa to buy some credibility.) Occasionally, when psychopathic white-collar offenders are identified, they seek out the media and give interviews. They may believe their skills of persuasion are effective enough to convince the public that they have done nothing wrong and are being targeted unjustly by law enforcement. To prevent serious problems with the investigation and prosecution, investigators must remain prepared for all possibilities. Conclusion Psychopathy, one of the most studied personality disorders, can cause numerous problems for investigators. Therefore, law enforcement officers must become familiar with psychopaths’ traits and characteristics, prevent psychopathic bonds from forming, corroborate information, and take all observations seriously. Investigators must know themselves, work together, communicate with one another openly, and be prepared to deal with the corporate psychopath. Endnotes 1 Functional magnetic resonance imaging (FMRI) registers blood flow to functioning areas of the brain. 2 Hare’s Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R) is an assessment tool. Psychopathy, as determined by the PCL-R, is indicated by an overall score of 30 or above out of a possible 40. Many point configurations could result in the overall score, determined by adding up the total points for each of the 20 individually listed traits. 3 Research on psychopathy and lie-detection equipment has yielded conflicting results and remains inconclusive. 4 Once established that a perpetrator truly is a psychopath, reviewing the videotaped interrogation can be a lesson in their subtle, yet sophisticated manipulation techniques. This is the same method used by psychopathy researchers.
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Posted by mrnd5 on December 1, 2012
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May this never happen to another person!!!!
This blog is dedicated to getting the bank reforms and proper regulations of the banking industry put into place.
If that doesn’t happen, this consumer self advocacy must continue so that we can protect ourselves by collectively avoiding any financial institution or large corporate entity that has routinely scam the general public through misleading publicity that amount to false promises. Having been mislead once, I have vowed not to let this happen to me again. I would also like to protect my neighbor from these predatory practices that I found when using Meta Bank’s prepaid cards.
—By Andy Kroll
Not even two weeks have passed since Democrat Elizabeth Warren rode a wave of grassroots support to victory in the US Senate race in Massachusetts, ousting Republican incumbent Scott Brown.
Senator-elect Warren has not yet hired her staff. She has not yet moved into her Senate office. But the banking industry is already taking aim at her, scurrying to curb her future clout on Capitol Hill.
Warren has not yet said whether she wants to serve on the committee. But she would be a natural: She’s a bankruptcy law expert, she served as Congress’ lead watchdog overseeing the $700 billion bank bailout from 2008 to 2010, and she conceived of and helped launch the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB).
“Downtown”—shorthand for Washington’s lobbying corridor—”has been going nuts” to keep her off the committee, another Senate aide says.
Sen. Jack Reed (D-R.I.), a banking committee member, has been angling to get Warren on the committee, “but there are many bank lobbyists pushing to keep her off,” a top Democratic Senate aide told Politico‘s Morning Money tipsheet. But the aide added,“If she really wants banking, it will be very tough politically to keep her off.”
Several banking trade groups—including the American Bankers Association, Securities Industry and Financial Markets Association, and the Mortgage Bankers Association—declined or didn’t respond to requests for comment. A spokesman for Warren also declined to comment.
She backs the Volcker Rule, a limit on how much banks can trade with their own money.
What may trouble the big banks most is Warren’s call for revisiting the Glass-Steagall Act, which separated riskier investment banks from more staid commercial banks.
Reinstating Glass-Steagall would mean breaking up sprawling Wall Street institutions such as JPMorgan Chase, Citigroup, and Bank of America.
During negotiations last year between state attorneys general and bank executives over a foreclosure fraud settlement, Warren suggested the banks cough up $20 billion. The figure angered members of the banking industry, who saw it as far too high. But Warren’s view prevailed—and then some. The banks paid $25 billion in their settlement.
“At exactly the time that big banks don’t want more oversight—or another potentially activist regulator—that’s what they’re getting,” hedge fund manager Shah Gilani told Forbes.
And in this skirmish, the banks won. (How did that happen?)
The Obama administration buckled under the weight of Wall Street’s opposition and Republican obstruction and denied Warren the director’s post at the bureau.(And as consumers did we just role over and let this happen? It appears to be that way.)
The White House instead tasked her with getting the bureau up and running, and later nominated Ohio Attorney General Richard Cordray to serve as the bureau’s first director—a nomination she publicly supported.
The committee’s chair, Democratic Sen. Tim Johnson, represents South Dakota, home to $2.5 trillion in bank assets and the credit card operations for
Citigroup,
Wells Fargo,
HSBC,
and other banks capitalizing on that state’s elimination of interest rate caps.
The liberal website Daily Kos recently launched a petition pressuring Democratic leaders in the Senate to give Warren a spot on the banking committee if she wants it.
Warren has “been a champion for the CFPB, but I think even broader than that she has been a champion for family economic security,” says Tom Feltner, director of financial services at the Consumer Federation of America. Sen. Jeff Merkley (D-Ore.), a member of the banking committee, says Warren “would be a great addition” who “will fight to put the middle class first.”
no doubt, she will face a series of fights with her new colleagues. Sen. Richard Shelby of Alabama, the senior Republican on the panel, and other GOPers on the committee loathe Warren’s support for tighter regulation of banks and lenders.
(Consumers are begging for improved bank regulations; we would have put in even tighter controls than we see being offered by D.C. based elected representatives. Since the banks have failed to serve us in a way that we deem to be acceptable for the general welfare of both sides, we believe that it is appropriate to put in many more safeguards that protect consumers…. Had Meta Bank been in the remotest way concerned about their consumer’s welfare, they would have already taken care of this matter internally…. META BANK has offered training sessions to other financial institutions and META BANK is the driving force in the National Prepaid Bank Card Association which they created as a non-profit to promote their cause in the US Congress and The US House. If only META BANK had sought to protect their customer base rather than abuse it, most likely our economy would be far better off…. META BANK has failed to see how what they are doing has adversely affected their customer base. Given this, as consumer’s we must ask for better government protections simply so we can survive. META BANK CEO’s has more annual income than God, far more than what is actually needed. If they only also served their customer base rather than scam us with misleading information and extremely one-sided banking contracts, we, as consumers, may have felt differently. Elizabeth Warren is needed by the people, and the people have seen fit to put her in Congress…. The election in November 2012 seems to highlight the fact that the GOP is out of touch with the average American. Also, the Republican Party may have been advocating for a united front, but they only appear to be the party of “No”… The American People have spoken.)
They’ve denounced the CFPB as an example of gross government overreach and vowed to block Warren’s nomination to run the bureau when she was under consideration.
It’s up to Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-Nev.) to decide which freshman senators get what assignments. (A spokesman for Reid did not respond to a request for comment.)
So Warren’s committee assignments are in his hands. Warren, though, is no ordinary freshman senator, as the early fight over her possible appointment to the banking committee demonstrates. When she does arrive in Washington, a fight will likely follow her wherever she goes.( Perhaps this fight, if it happens after all, needs to take place… and given that META BANK and banks operating in the same manner have failed the general public and that META BANK has destroyed the general public’s confidence in the banking system, there will be very little consumer complaints logged about bank regulations and bank regulation reforms that may actually protect us…. We need this to get all of the economy back up on its feet.)
Update: Last week Sen. Tim Johnson (D-S.D.), chair of the banking committee, publicly said he has a “good working relationship” with Warren and would welcome her onto the committee.
”Her expertise and knowledge would be an asset to the committee as we continue working to protect consumers and maintain financial stability,” Johnson said.
Posted by mrnd5 on November 30, 2012
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WASHINGTON — As you are thinking about what to get the people on your holiday shopping list, consider giving something special to those caring for an elderly relative or friend.
A lot of them are making enormous sacrifices.
About one in six people who have a full- or part-time job say that they have to care for an elderly or disabled family member, relative or friend, according to Gallup research sponsored by Pfizer and ReACT (or Respect a Caregiver’s Time) — a coalition of corporations and organizations trying to address challenges faced by employee caregivers. The research found that workers are forced to miss an average of 6.6 days per year because of caregiving responsibilities.
Amy Goyer, a family expert for AARP who is the primary caregiver for her elderly parents, recently wrote a wonderful blog about her holiday gift list that I’m sure speaks for a lot of people in the same situation.
“The gifts caregivers most want are not big-ticket items,” Goyer says.
“They are the things that soothe our souls, give us a smile and make us feel less alone. This is an important and challenging time in our lives and we often have no idea how long it will continue.”
The majority of caregivers participating in the Gallup poll said they have been providing care for three years or more.
So what could you give a caregiver? Here are just a few things on Goyer’s list:
As my pastor often says, God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. Often caregivers just want to vent or sound out a decision they have to make. “If you feel like you don’t know how to help the caregiver in your life,” says Goyer, “remember that sometimes just listening is indeed helping.”
Goyer writes: “I’m constantly questioning and trying to do things better! But what about the positives? What about the things I’m doing right?” I so identify with that plea. I’ve been the caregiver for several relatives and it’s frustrating to get critical remarks that outweigh the number of times someone says you’re doing a good job, especially when the people with lots of opinions and criticism aren’t helping very much with the care-giving.
Here’s something people often say that Goyer believes isn’t very helpful: “Let me know if there is anything I can do to help.” People who are busy caring for others often don’t have the energy to list all the things they need help with doing. Or they may be too proud to ask for help. Be specific in what help you can offer.
Now that you know what a caregiver might need, here are some suggestions from me on how to make those wishes tangible for the holidays:
When redeemed, you just listen to whatever he or she needs to talk about. Money Management International, a credit-counseling agency, has a site where you can personalize a holiday gift certificate. You can choose from five different backgrounds and you just type in what the bearer of the gift certificate will receive. Go to www.regiftable.com and click on the link for “Gift Certificates.”
You can find free e-cards at www.yahoo.americangreetings.com, www.smilebox.com, www.123greetings.com and www.hallmark.com. If you want access to premium cards, you may have to sign up for a subscription. And Goyer says don’t get offended if the person doesn’t have a chance to acknowledge the card.
Gallup found that caregivers spend a lot of their time on tasks such as
Caregivers also have to take care of a lot of administrative-type responsibilities such as
Spafinder.com will help you find a spa facility in your area. (This gift might need to come with an offer to sit with the elderly relative while the person gets the spa treatment.)
For more gift-giving ideas read, Goyer’s blog. Go to www.aarp.org and search for “A Caregiver’s Christmas Wish List.”
This holiday, help bring some peace and joy to the caregivers you know.
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Readers can write to Michelle Singletary care of The Washington Post,
1150 15th St., N.W., Washington, D.C. 20071.
Her email address is singletarym@washpost.com.
Posted by mrnd5 on December 18, 2011
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